Post by The Big Daddy C-Master on Jul 14, 2015 13:45:26 GMT -5
It just doesn't stop. This is just sad:
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Topic: Can't Stop Giving This Girl Money
Met this girl online about 6 months ago and she was uninterested in me and I could tell. Eventually she stopped talking to me altogether so I offered her money if she'd be my friend.
She accepted and since I've sent her $2,170. Many times in the past months I've tried to stop. Realizing that this was a horrible idea and I'm going broke, but due to me having no friends I continued.
It's gotten to the point where she doesn't even talk to me unless she wants money and she now refers to me as her ''human atm'' ''piggy bank'' or her favorite ''financial slave.'' She says that I should be grateful that someone like her would even talk to me so I should continue to give her money and I have
But yesterday I resisted. I was supposed to give her $150 and I didn't. She got really pissed and said she's never going to talk to me again. I'm thinking of sending her the money tomorrow because I'm really lonely and even if she'll only talk to me for money, it's better than nothing and being without anyone to text.
I know it's really unhealthy, I know I need to make new friends but I can't, I know I need to take my mind off of her but I really like her even though she's rude and manipulative but I can't. So what should I do?
Should I just be thankful I have her and continue to give her money even though I'm broke pretty much as I can't make any new friends?
Or should I stop and just withstand the heartache and pain associated with being alone 24/7 with no one to talk to?
Update: I don't know why people bother answering, saying things that I've already said I've tried. I've tried to make friends irl and online with no success. I'm not a very likeable person, and I have depression and anxiety.
I can't just go to the park and make friends, I've tried. I've also tried various activities and such and nothing works. I'm a loser and that's why I think I should continue to give her money because nothing I do helps. I just need one good friend but no one wants to be mine so I'm hopeless and helpless to stop giving her money. She even told me the other day to call her my master because I am her slave.
Update 2: I don't know why people bother answering, saying things that I've already said I've tried. I've tried to make friends irl and online with no success. I'm not a very likeable person, and I have depression and anxiety.
I can't just go to the park and make friends, I've tried. I've also tried various activities and such and nothing works. I'm a loser and that's why I think I should continue to give her money because nothing I do helps. I just need one good friend but no one wants to be mine so I'm hopeless and helpless to stop giving her money. She even told me the other day to call her my master because I am her slave.
Update 3: Also I feel as though I am a failure at life, 25 with no friends, no good future ahead of me, no education, bad job, that I feel like I need to be punished so maybe giving her money is a good thing as punishment for me being a failure. I think I'm just going to give it to her guys. Thought someone might have been nice enough to want to befriend me but I guess not because like I said I'm a loser and no one likes me.
answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20140119225849AAvpwLD
Topic: Can't Stop Giving This Girl Money
Met this girl online about 6 months ago and she was uninterested in me and I could tell. Eventually she stopped talking to me altogether so I offered her money if she'd be my friend.
She accepted and since I've sent her $2,170. Many times in the past months I've tried to stop. Realizing that this was a horrible idea and I'm going broke, but due to me having no friends I continued.
It's gotten to the point where she doesn't even talk to me unless she wants money and she now refers to me as her ''human atm'' ''piggy bank'' or her favorite ''financial slave.'' She says that I should be grateful that someone like her would even talk to me so I should continue to give her money and I have
But yesterday I resisted. I was supposed to give her $150 and I didn't. She got really pissed and said she's never going to talk to me again. I'm thinking of sending her the money tomorrow because I'm really lonely and even if she'll only talk to me for money, it's better than nothing and being without anyone to text.
I know it's really unhealthy, I know I need to make new friends but I can't, I know I need to take my mind off of her but I really like her even though she's rude and manipulative but I can't. So what should I do?
Should I just be thankful I have her and continue to give her money even though I'm broke pretty much as I can't make any new friends?
Or should I stop and just withstand the heartache and pain associated with being alone 24/7 with no one to talk to?
Update: I don't know why people bother answering, saying things that I've already said I've tried. I've tried to make friends irl and online with no success. I'm not a very likeable person, and I have depression and anxiety.
I can't just go to the park and make friends, I've tried. I've also tried various activities and such and nothing works. I'm a loser and that's why I think I should continue to give her money because nothing I do helps. I just need one good friend but no one wants to be mine so I'm hopeless and helpless to stop giving her money. She even told me the other day to call her my master because I am her slave.
Update 2: I don't know why people bother answering, saying things that I've already said I've tried. I've tried to make friends irl and online with no success. I'm not a very likeable person, and I have depression and anxiety.
I can't just go to the park and make friends, I've tried. I've also tried various activities and such and nothing works. I'm a loser and that's why I think I should continue to give her money because nothing I do helps. I just need one good friend but no one wants to be mine so I'm hopeless and helpless to stop giving her money. She even told me the other day to call her my master because I am her slave.
Update 3: Also I feel as though I am a failure at life, 25 with no friends, no good future ahead of me, no education, bad job, that I feel like I need to be punished so maybe giving her money is a good thing as punishment for me being a failure. I think I'm just going to give it to her guys. Thought someone might have been nice enough to want to befriend me but I guess not because like I said I'm a loser and no one likes me.
