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Post by JACK-2 on Dec 14, 2016 23:46:36 GMT -5
Being who I am it's quite normal that for the most part most of my male friends are people of color who identify as Black whether mixed or not. It's not a particular preference, I talk to everyone if I can. But because of my socio-economic background. Brothas are to whom I regularly associate with. But, who associate with often has a qualitative effect on your life. Like if you hung around a bunch of lowlives all day who did nothing but smoke weed, play Video Games and were unemployed. That would be a net drain on your life. Since they would want you to follow suite with these unproductive activities. Worst yet, if they're criminals than their lifestyle might start to bring you trouble. We talk about how much modern men regardless of race have become losers that don't do anything but play Video Games and watch porn. This is a trend more pronounced among the "Brothas" and I'm honestly tired of it.
Personally, I'm tired of it. I'm tired of whenever I take the crappy Bus downtown to get home it's filled with brothas and ugly women. All the pretty girls have cars or take the bus to the mall. Tired of associating with them because the women they know are: Black ratchet, fat and ugly. Tired of the only thing they can talk about is Video Games and weed. Tired of how none of them are doing shit: No real careers no ambitions. Tired of the single mother dominated community, Black women are "Queens" BS.
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Post by The Big Daddy C-Master on Dec 15, 2016 2:56:43 GMT -5
That's how it is. Unfortunately it's more prevalent amongst the blacks and blacks are far more likely to be poor. I've definitely have had white loser friends too but when I go back to my hometown I'm greeted with mediocrity and the loser mentality. It's so annoying I just stop talking to people like that. It's not just the losers too, it's the average. The "go to school, have kids, get married, get a job, and die" mentality. Very annoying to deal with to say the least and they love to force this on you like they love to force religion on you. The more you go up in life the more it will be difficult to find like-minded people. You'll have to network and find people who aren't like that. Otherwise they just drown you with irrelevant noise and it's annoying. I've had to let people go from the past for this very reason. That's why I made this blog post on the matter: thec-masterszone.com/dont-follow-life-script/
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Post by JACK-2 on Dec 15, 2016 9:16:55 GMT -5
Unfortunately, I'm still too far down the socio-economic totem pole to be frustrated with averages. But, knowing you and how you're always trying to better yourself. The settling for mediocrity would get to you lol. But, as for me I'm to busy dealing with the "Niggas" and DBZ lol. DBZ, weed and fat chicks is the holy trinity of niggadom lol,
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Post by The Big Daddy C-Master on Dec 15, 2016 18:36:58 GMT -5
It's more of a mindset than anything. As you desire to climb out you will get tired of the others trying to drag you down. The "get a job and work 40 years" mentality is just as annoying.
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Post by JACK-2 on Dec 15, 2016 18:39:49 GMT -5
It's more of a mindset than anything. As you desire to climb out you will get tired of the others trying to drag you down. The "get a job and work 40 years" mentality is just as annoying. Yeah, too many people are buying into thinking that doesn't help them. Useful idiots and cannon fodder.
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Post by The Big Daddy C-Master on Dec 15, 2016 20:31:55 GMT -5
They do what's convenient and easy.
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Post by JACK-2 on Jan 23, 2017 19:26:14 GMT -5
Need to update the title to I need less loser male friends. Because from my perspective even the "niggas" I grew up hanging out with are better (They get laid, have jobs and some even care about improving). The cringey beta males are the worst.
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Post by The Big Daddy C-Master on Jan 23, 2017 19:34:58 GMT -5
Yea, it's really about being a loser no matter the skin color. Many of these guys wonder why people run from them. They have the stink of death.
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Post by JACK-2 on Jan 23, 2017 19:43:58 GMT -5
Yea, it's really about being a loser no matter the skin color. Many of these guys wonder why people run from them. They have the stink of death. It's definitely a spectrum, but from where I'm cringey betas are the worst.
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Post by The Big Daddy C-Master on Jan 24, 2017 2:54:44 GMT -5
Just avoid toxic people of all kinds.
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